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In a now-viral publish, a bride-to-be printed that she instructed her sister to modify her bridesmaid dress or she wouldn't be welcome on the wedding.

Drama, particularly circle of relatives drama, can flip a dream wedding into the worst nightmare of your existence. The months main up to the big day can break relationships, and ultimately, the situation will reach a snapping point. Take it from this girl in the preferred "Am I the A------" (AITA) subreddit, who is combating with her sister over her bridesmaid dress.

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The original poster, who is going via the deal with u/benicenotstupid, revealed that she has some pre-wedding drama together with her circle of relatives. In the put up, the bride-to-be mentioned if her older sister did not discover a new bridesmaid dress, she would no longer be welcome on the wedding.

Read on for the entire known main points. Plus, stick round to hear what social media has to mention.

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A bride disinvited her sister from her wedding over her bridesmaid dress.

The OP explained that she and her sister had been raised in a liberal house the place they have been allowed to put on "anything or nothing at home." She famous that her older sister steadily donned skimpy outfits, and despite the fact that it never bothered her, it has now become an issue — wait, why?

Well, the wedding, of course! The OP is getting married, and her older sister plans to put on a slightly racy robe. She described her sister's bridesmaid dress, claiming it clearly presentations "she's not wearing a bra or panties because it has a slit up to her waist and her back and chest are barely covered."

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The OP added that she would feel uncomfortable together with her sister being around other folks, particularly her fiancé and his circle of relatives, in a skimpy dress. Although her folks do not see the rest mistaken with it, the OP does not assume it's wedding-appropriate. As a end result, the OP instructed her older sister if she doesn't to find one thing else to put on, she's now not one of the most bridesmaids — and she will not be welcome at the wedding.

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The OP's sister isn't happy, saying the bride-to-be is being unfair since she has "no right to control what people wear, and I also let all bridesmaids choose whatever design they wanted as long as they stuck to the colors I gave."

She identified that although her sister's dress sticks to the colour scheme, she does not particularly just like the design. The OP wrote, "I don't want my sister flashing my guests, but she called me an AH when I disinvited her."

And now, the OP's parents are not speaking to her — however her fiancé stated he would "go with what I decided."

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Reddit unanimously has the same opinion that the OP wishes to stand her floor.

The now-viral submit gained over 3,800 comments from Redditors who agreed that the OP's sister is wrong.

"Put your foot down that your sister will not be dressing like she is going to an MTV music awards show — or she will not be in your wedding," one particular person penned. "Because you are the damn bride, and in this case, you can control what your bridal party — and even guests — wear."

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A 2nd Reddit person agreed, writing, "Exactly. Being asked to adhere to a dress code for one day on one of the most important days in your sibling's life isn't a difficult ask, and following it is the considerate thing to do."

"NTA. That dress is totally inappropriate for your wedding," any other Redditor replied. "This is also incredibly attention-seeking, and she's not the main character at your wedding. She should choose something else."

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Someone else commented, "If it was at a wedding in my family, people wouldn't be offended. They'd just laugh at how desperate she seems." OK, that's a bit harsh, but sure, we agree that the dress is not right for a wedding.

What do you think? Would you let someone put on a dress like that to your wedding? Let us know!

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